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16 Aug 2015 18:28

Stop Dating Someone You Don’t Have A Future With

Relationships keep us going at times. We break down in front of the other person and we allow ourselves to
completely trust and love them. However, there is no point of being in a relationship that has no future. It is better to walk alone than to walk into a wall
while walking with someone.

Here are signs that your relationship has no future and you need to end it:

1. He forgets what you
tell him. Have you shared your favourite colour or your
favourite song with him just to find out that he forgot it later? You deserve attention
and you deserves a
boyfriend who remembers things that you tell him. If he
forgets these little things, do you really think he will remember the major things?

2. His friends don’t
know that you exist.
He should be proud of
having you and he doesn’t have to keep it a secret. When you’re madly in love with someone, you at least
mention them in front of your friends. However, if his friends don’t know that you
exist or you’ve never met them, you really need to ask him if he is serious or not.

3. You always make the
first move. From texting him in the
morning to making plans for going out, if you have to do
everything then ask yourself if it’s really worth it. Shy
people find it hard to initiate things but even they make the move at times. If you are
supposed to do everything, and they just do it when they
want, don’t compromise.

4. You fight all the time.
A little amount of arguments is health for relationships but if you guys cannot sit
together without fighting then you need to assess things.
There should be some
common ground between you guys. Fighting all the time will
not take you anywhere.

5. You have started
finding other people
attractive. Do you feel the need to check out other people and
then end up finding them more attractive? Do you feel no guilt in doing so? If this is
happening to you then stop and ask yourself if you really need to stay with the person you are with. You’re not even feeling belonged
then what is the point of dragging it.

6. His thoughts don’t
come in your head.
You don’t have to be
obsessive and I am
definitely not preaching that but did you just spend your day without even thinking of
him once? Did you think for a minute about what he must be up to right now? No?
Then sweety, what are you doing wasting your time and telling people that you’re committed?

5. The other person
doesn’t respect you.
Does he look for instances to ridicule you or make fun of
you? Are you the laughing stock when you guys sit
together with your friends or other couples? If he doesn’t
how to respect you, what makes you think that he will respect you at some point?
Respect is a point that
shouldn’t be compromised upon. NEVER.

6. The other person is
not 1% possessive.
He or she do not just care about you. They don’t get bothered if someone flirts with you openly or when
someone checks you out in public, then do they even feel like you’re theirs? I am
sorry but stop wasting your time and get out now.

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30 Aug 2015 14:22

Don't expect people to love you the way you want to be loved because life is different you don't get what you want but you have to work for it and also healthy dialogue between partners so that you get to an understanding.There is no mr right or miss right but you make them mr or miss right through dialogue and discovering them. Diamonds come from the ground rough but they get cut and polished then you start to appreciate them,so people need to know love is hard work you have to work hard to gain the greatest love life. Sometimes we throw away rough unpolished diamonds and someone picks them and polishes them,its never too late to find love one day love will find you so don't lose hope keep on keeping up love is real.

1 Sep 2015 07:04

thats living truth