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18 Apr 2015 02:42

how do u know someone loves u

20 Apr 2015 15:38

Action speak louder than words

20 Apr 2015 22:31

Love does not change but people change,love stays the same its ever loving but people give it a bad name because of greedy and mindless games

25 May 2015 23:49

kupindirana mafungiro nekuwirirana kuva nehanya kwake kwauri,mukufara mukuchema mukugarika nemunhamo ndoorunonzi Rudo

5 Jul 2015 21:47

There's no guaranteed way
to know if a person truly
loves you, but there are a
few ways to read the signs
to figure out what is on the
mind of your loved one. If
you'd like to know if the
person you love truly loves
you back, then you have to
pay attention to how the
person acts, what they say,
and what they do when
you're together. Though love
may mean something
different to every person,
there are many ways to tell if
a person truly loves you
instead of just having a
crush on you, liking you a
lot, wanting your money, or
just being momentarily
infatuated with you. If you
want to know if that person
truly loves you, just follow what l am about to say.

Notice What The Person Says

1. See if the person talks about your future
together like it's a
given. If the person
really loves you, then the
idea of you being in his or
her future is an absolute
given, not something that
he or she would ever
have anxiety or
uncertainty about. If the
person routinely talks
about what you're going to
do in the future, about
what your lives will look
like one, two, or even ten
years in the future
together, then he's
probably in love with you.

True commitment means
seeing a forever with
another person. If the
person talks about the
future and always
includes you in it, then
there's a good chance
he truly loves you.
If the person talks
about what your kids
will look like, where
you'll retire together,
or where you'll go for
your honeymoon, then
he may really love you.

2. See if the person
gives you meaningful
compliments. There's a
difference between saying,
"I like your new haircut"
and "You have the ability
to make me feel better no
matter what." If the person
gives you complements
that show that he really
appreciates the important
aspects of your character
and personality, then
there's a good chance he
really loves you.

Your loved one doesn't
have to shower you
with compliments all the
time — it's the quality,
not the quantity, that
makes a difference.

3. See if the person says
"I love you" and
means it. Remember that
there's a big difference
between "Love ya!" and "I
love you." If your special
someone really loves you
and tells you this much
while looking into your
eyes, sounding earnest,
and not wanting anything
from you, then it's likely
that he really means it.

If the person
undeniably loves you,
then he'll say it for no
reason at all, not just
because he needs a
favor or because it
feels like the right thing
to say.

4. See if the person
really opens up to
you. If your loved one
really loves you, then
they'll really open up to
you and tell you what they
are thinking, feeling,
fearing, and longing for. If
the person really opens
up about their childhood,
greatest regrets, most
painful moments, or most
romantic dreams for the
future, then it's likely that
they like you because the
person is so comfortable
telling you anything.

If the person tells you,
"I've never told anyone
this before..." then
there's a good chance
that he really loves
and trusts you.

5. See if your loved one
tells you how much
she misses you when
you're apart. If you and
your loved one are apart,
but she still texts you,
calls you, or emails you to
let you know how much
she misses you, then it
means she can't imagine
her life without you. If you
go on a three-week
vacation and don't hear a
word from her, then it may
not be love.
She doesn't have to
call you constantly to
let you know if she
misses you.

6. See if the person is
comfortable with
pointing out your
mistakes. If that person
truly loves you, then he
doesn't have an idealized
picture of you in his mind.
If it's truly love, then that
person will be comfortable
with telling you when
you've made a mistake,
said something illogical, or
acted badly. Though the
person shouldn't criticize
you all the time, giving you
a healthy amount of
criticism just means that
the person really knows
you in and out and accepts
your mistakes as well as
your best qualities.
If the person never
argues with you or
never criticizes you,
then you should be on
the look out. Make sure
that the person truly
loves you instead of an
ideal version of who
you are.

7. See if the person truly
values your opinion. If
the person truly loves
you, then he'll care about
what you think -- whether
it's about his new pair of
shoes or the political
situation in your country. If
he really loves you, he'll
ask for your advice and
opinions, whether it's on
matters big or small. He
may feel self-conscious
about asking for your
opinion, but he'll do it
because he loves you.
He doesn't have to ask
for your opinion on
everything -- only the
things that really
matter.