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19 Mar 2014 04:52

Being in relations is very difficult any advice or tips from yours?

19 Mar 2014 05:03
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19 Mar 2014 05:46

Just one word!
Trust!
Love, respect, etc. Become useless if you don't trust each other.

19 Mar 2014 07:38

Sometimes relationships can seem like a lot of work until you sit back and realize just how much you've been given. A thriving, healthy relationship requires some give and take, and is absolutely within your reach if you and your partner are willing to do a bit of work. If you and your partner are right for each other, all the work will definitely be worth it in the long run.

19 Mar 2014 07:40

1.Take responsibility for your own happiness.Save yourself several hours of arguing by remembering this one rule: it's not up to anyone else to make you happy. In a relationship your partner will try to please you and make you happy but in the end you are responsible for your happiness.

2.Make good on your words.Follow through on your promises. When you say you're going to do something, do it. Don't say that you'll cook dinner, or get a birthday present, and then blow it off or simply forget about it. What this does is systematically destroy trust. And relationships need trust in order to thrive.

19 Mar 2014 07:42

3.Admit your mistakes.If you know you've done something to hurt your partner, intentionally or not, own up to it. Humble yourself and apologize sincerely, without making excuses or justifications like "I'm sorry you made me angry."
*.Commit to changing your behavior. If you notice yourself apologizing for the same mistake over and over, step it up a level. Tell your partner that you recognize this mistake keeps happening, and you want to train yourself to stop. Request help and ask for him or her to gently point it out to you when you're making this mistake again.

19 Mar 2014 08:54
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19 Mar 2014 09:34

Quote by clixsters
Just one word!
Trust!
Love, respect, etc. Become useless if you don't trust each other. ;)

19 Mar 2014 10:41

4.Be realistic.Every relationship has disagreements and days when staying isn't the easiest choice. But what makes a relationship healthy is choosing to resolve those problems and push through the hard days, instead of just letting issues and resentment fester.
*.Review your expectations. Do you see your partner as a person, with both winning qualities and flaws, or as someone you expect to be perfect? If your expectations are so astronomical that no one could live up to them 100% of the time, you're setting up your relationship for failure.
*.Accept that conflict happens. If you expect to be in a long-term relationship, you're bound to have the occasional disagreement. Remember that one argument isn't the end of everything, and there's no person on earth that you'd agree with all the time.
*.Always ask yourself whether you're better off in the relationship than out of it. If you don't think you're better off in the relationship, then you probably should have a serious discussion with your partner. In a loving relationship, this question almost always gets a simple "Yes."

19 Mar 2014 10:42

5.Listen to your partner.Sometimes, all your partner wants is for you to lend an ear and be sympathetic about one of their problems. Other times, your partner wants you to actively give them advice. Know which one your partner is looking for, and try to give them what they want. Being a good listener is all about paying attention
*.Listening to your partner will enhance your relationship in many ways. It will help you resolve differences without arguing; let you explore each other's personality more deeply.

19 Mar 2014 10:43

6.Show your affection in whatever way you can.There's a difference betweenknowingthat you're loved andfeelingthat you're loved. Sometimes, we bank on the fact that our partners should know that we love them even when we don't show it. Don't rely on this too much. The best relationships use
*.Do something for your partner that you know s/he will truly appreciate. Whether it means getting up early to mow the lawn, taking the kids to karate, or baking that nutella shortcake, it's often the little favors that say the most.
*.Don't be afraid to show physical affection every once in a while. Loving relationships feed off of the little kisses, hugs, and back-rubs that are mainstays of affection.
*.Do the unexpected. It's one thing to kiss your partner after you come home from work; it's another thing to kiss your wife while you're skydiving, falling 10,000 feet from a plane. It's the thought that counts, so put a little effort into it for huge returns.

19 Mar 2014 10:44

7.Be loyal.Make sure he/she knows that you will always be there for him/her. Put him/her first in your life as much as you possibly can. Not that you have to only see him/her ever, or never talk to anyone else, but he/she should know that he/she can always count on you if he/she needs something. Also, expect the same loyalty from him/her.

8.Do not ever hide anything from him/her.Especially your feelings about him/her and your relationship - whether good or bad! This way you will be able to overcome all the difficulties and challenges together. If something bad happened in your past that still affects you in the present, he/she needs to know about it.

19 Mar 2014 10:45

9.Give him/her some space.Everyone needs their own privacy and some freedom, so don't constantly watch everything he/she does. Everyone hates to be watched, stifled and controlled.
*.Do not ever spy on him/her (reading his/her phone, stalking him/her on social networks, following him/her around). If he/she is cheating on you, you will find out. These things cannot be kept secret for very long. But if you spy on him/her and he/she is innocent, you will lose his trust and respect forever.

19 Mar 2014 10:47

10.Express your feelings towards him/her.Always remind him/her of how much they mean to you, and what they represent to you. Women are not the only ones who need expressions of love and care, men need that too.

11.Encourage him/her.So that he/she can be more successful at work or study. That will make him/her realise how much you care about his/her future and wish that he/she'd become one of the best. It will also make his/her feeling towards you grow even stronger, and he/she will believe that you're ready to support him/her on

19 Mar 2014 23:41
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21 Mar 2014 12:28
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21 Mar 2014 13:07

Fevicol se

21 Mar 2014 15:07

I think a good idea to make ur relation work as we all know that actions speaks louder than words:faithfulness,showing respect,telling the truth,passionate,loving,supportive,always pay attention,Caring and being loyalty etc

Edited by sarah-_-konnie / 21 Mar 2014 15:09
21 Mar 2014 15:08

Getting her to learn how to cook

21 Mar 2014 15:29

To make ur relation work:be faithful and tell the truth always,going out together,trustworthy and loyalty is the key to make it strong,be patient and take things easy,try to forgive and forget,try to keep ur privacy always,pls don't tell lies to the one u love,always keep ur promises,be open and tell ur partner the truth,use those sweet words u used to mention when u meet ur partner b4,try to commit peace,show affection to ur partner and admit all mistakes.

Edited by sarah-_-konnie / 21 Mar 2014 15:32
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