International forum: Romance & Friendship - How to Understand a Cheating Girlfriend?
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17 Jan 2015 04:02

When you've been hit with the news that your girlfriend has cheated on you, it can be hard to handle. If you're struggling to understand what went wrong and why she did what she did, read on below the jump. Although you may not be able to fix your relationship, you'll at least be able to exit it with a bit of closure and understanding.

*Consider how you found out about the cheating.

*If a significant amount of time has passed since the incident then weigh up what has been built since with what you would lose.

*Remember that there is a big difference between a one time mistake and a long term affair.

*Alcohol during the act of cheating should not be used as an excuse, but you should also consider that your girlfriend may not have been thinking clearly.