International forum: Romance & Friendship - Can you control who you can fall in love with?
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25 Dec 2014 12:39

Some say that you fall in love cannot be controlled it is an instinct. However, others believe that through time and effort love can be possible such as in arranged marriages. Through time the people can fall in love. Is this true? or is love an instinct? and you cannot control who you love.So is love earned?

30 Dec 2014 19:15

you can close your ears and eyes to the things you dont want to see and hear bt you cant close your heart to its feelings.the real spiritually and emotionally falling in love its not like switching on the lights pap! bt like mining gold under hard rocks

Edited by 0705189373 / 30 Dec 2014 19:29
30 Dec 2014 22:19

When you fall in love, the natural thing to do is give yourself to it. That's what I think. It's just a form of sincerity.

30 Dec 2014 22:20

Love does not appear with any warning signs. You fall into it as if pushed from a high diving board. No time to think about what's happening. It's inevitable. An event you can't control. A crazy, heart-stopping, roller-coaster ride that just has to take its course.