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10 Oct 2014 09:05

My opinion is to help them to see the possibilities rather than endless negatives

Edited by christine123 / 10 Oct 2014 21:07
10 Oct 2014 10:33

Do u mean toxic like, u know, they being abysmal minded, or perhaps, ill-mannered/negative minded?

Edited by venice-sparkles / 10 Oct 2014 10:35
10 Oct 2014 10:52

Learn to pick up on the energy around you. Besides knowing yourself well, you need to know how you feel when toxic people are around you. You probably already know how to do this but learn to make it a conscious act, not just an unconscious reaction. For example, think about how you feel when you walk into a business where everyone is friendly and cannot do enough to engage you in casual conversation.

Edited by christine123 / 10 Oct 2014 21:07
10 Oct 2014 10:52

a comm0n tip u will hear f0r dealing with t0xic pe0ple is t0 "n0t engage.." while that s0unds gud in the0ry, its n0t s0 helpful because it only tells u what n0t t0 do, but offers n0 acti0n t0 take..this leaves us feeling small in comparis0n t0 a str0nger pers0nality..take f0r example, a friend wh0 is g0ing int0 a tailspin of c0mplaining..
u d0nt have t0 confr0nt
her and engage in s0me kind of battle..a gesture as simple as t0uching her sh0ulder, and saying s0mething like, "I hate t0 see things affecting u s0
deeply, it seems s0 painful," is highly effective because u have helped her t0 see her suffering in a different light while letting her kn0w you're n0t bec0ming a part 0f it..

Edited by NaeEm.. / 10 Oct 2014 10:53
10 Oct 2014 10:54

Quote by NaeEm..
a comm0n tip u will hear f0r dealing with t0xic pe0ple is t0 "n0t engage.." while that s0unds gud in the0ry, its n0t s0 helpful because it only tells u what n0t t0 do, but offers n0 acti0n t0 take..this leaves us feeling small in comparis0n t0 a str0nger pers0nality..take f0r example, a friend wh0 is g0ing int0 a tailspin of c0mplaining..
u d0nt have t0 confr0nt
her and engage in s0me kind of battle..a gesture as simple as t0uching her sh0ulder, and saying s0mething like, "I hate t0 see things affecting u s0
deeply, it seems s0 painful," is highly effective because u have helped her t0 see her suffering in a different light while letting her kn0w you're n0t bec0ming a part 0f it..

10 Oct 2014 10:55

Quote by venice-sparkles
Do u mean toxic like, u know, they being abysmal minded, or perhaps, ill-mannered/negative minded?

10 Oct 2014 10:55

I dont know

10 Oct 2014 13:34
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10 Oct 2014 14:31

MOVE ON WITHOUT THEMwhen you delete them frm ur environment it becomes easier to breathe
PUT YOUR FEET DOWNstand up 4 your self coz your dignity maybe attacked .revaged and disgracefully mocked

10 Oct 2014 17:52

Deal wd love n care.first ov all try to knw da root cause.why they r toxic what is da actual reason behind it.

10 Oct 2014 19:52

Toxic people?

10 Oct 2014 21:28

Praye 4 them. whth GOD all things are possible. the BIBLE says, "LOVES your neigbours as u LOVES yourselves", and "LEARN to live in PEACE with EVERONE."

10 Oct 2014 21:41

Detox them lol

10 Oct 2014 22:10

hmm we have toxic pple ?

10 Oct 2014 22:16

Quote by 0705189373
MOVE ON WITHOUT THEMwhen you delete them frm ur environment it becomes easier to breathe
PUT YOUR FEET DOWNstand up 4 your self coz your dignity maybe attacked .revaged and disgracefully mocked

11 Oct 2014 04:11

just ignored him/her or better to stay away to that toxic wasted peeps.. ;9)

11 Oct 2014 04:19

Find the solution to cure those guys.

11 Oct 2014 16:25

Refer them to physician...

11 Oct 2014 17:06

hollow nice to meeting you miss

11 Oct 2014 21:30

Yes u r right!