International forum: Romance & Friendship - To Pretend Or Not To Pretend
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23 Sep 2014 09:35


Many of us think that we have to say, or feel, or be something other than what we are. We say things we don’t mean, thinking it’s what others want to hear. We pretend to feel things that seem acceptable so that others will approve of us.
When we pretend to be or feel what we are not, we deny ourselves the quintessence of who we really are.


Life is not about pretending; it is about facing our fears, facing our insecurities, knowing our limiting beliefs.
There is no reason to pretend when we can simply apply our strengths to are as that are not as secure or strong. Friends please share your ideas

27 Sep 2014 02:08

People who ever pretend are All undoubtedly SNAKES.

27 Sep 2014 02:23

we r wht we r if r caught all bout our weak nesess its better not to put ur true self hold on to ur strength in a way of sacrificing ur own happiness be lead by the grace of god people hv always faces thts why the creator blessed us w/ so many talents and even tears r in ur eyes u hv many organs of ur body r not bleeding they can be usefull to earn to care to carry ur self from falling never the less u can express ur anger not bcoz u dint achieve ur goal but b coz u want to survive makin ur priorities in life it dont matter if u r truly true face wearin ur maskara through a stage ur showin ur self elegantly .... and 1 thing is 4sure true aura shines more than any 1 ....

27 Sep 2014 02:28
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27 Sep 2014 05:22

Quote by Teardropp
I agree to that.. U dont have to pretend something u are not.. U always have to be urself and let the natural u comes out.. :hm

Thanks t0 express y0ur h0nest 0pini0n friend

1 Oct 2014 06:13
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1 Oct 2014 13:48

Quote by Creepyfac3
i dnt like pretentious people cos most of the time they are the ones who loves stabbing their frnds at the back..to pretend is just like lying and it surely dnt give you goodness.whoever and whatever your are show it and be real,thats the only way you can find the real frnds who can accept you for what you are.