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2 Sep 2014 06:08

We`re here in this world to live an ordinary life & there is no interest in the loveaffairs but suddenly we fall inlove without knowing about it. Actually we cannot comprehend the situation in which someone makes to fall inlove with her or him!

Do you know about it? What happens whenever we fall inlove? Is there something attractive which makes us to fall inlove?

2 Sep 2014 06:13

i dnt kn0w all i kn0w is that sum1 is making me smile and making me cry and d best is he can make my heart beat fast whle im just 0nly sitting at 1 side

2 Sep 2014 06:25

Oh really? nice

2 Sep 2014 06:33

oh nice

2 Sep 2014 06:34

Quote by Wafa-waseem
We`re here in this world to live an ordinary life & there is no interest in the loveaffairs but suddenly we fall inlove without knowing about it. Actually we cannot comprehend the situation in which someone makes to fall inlove with her or him!

Do you know about it? What happens whenever we fall inlove? Is there something attractive which makes us to fall inlove? :)

haha its nature

2 Sep 2014 06:35

Simple . Its nature<3
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Han?

2 Sep 2014 07:01
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2 Sep 2014 07:02

Quote by Lost in love
Hu gaya gaya puto maya.

Translation?

2 Sep 2014 07:06

without love u not a complete person , jst like a song without a tune , so u must fall inlove 2 be a complete person

2 Sep 2014 07:07

Quote by Lilis_lilis
Simple . Its nature<3
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Han?

Possible -

2 Sep 2014 07:07
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2 Sep 2014 07:08

Quote by jasper.aitorea
without love u not a complete person , jst like a song without a tune , so u must fall inlove 2 be a complete person

Okay why should I fall inlove?

2 Sep 2014 07:09

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2 Sep 2014 07:10

Quote by Wafa-waseem
Oh really? nice

it is better to have loft and lost than to never
have loft at all
falling in love is a magical experience that happens between two people..
so why do people fall in love?
what happens when
two people are falling
in love?
Q: what motivates people to seek out love?
A: our primary motivation as human beings is to expand the self and to increase our abilities and our effectiveness..one of
the ways we accomplish this is through our
relationships with other people..we have learned that it is important to feel that you have the ability to be an effective person,
especially in our relationships..
Q: how does this theory
of self-expansion explain the process of falling in love?
A: usually, we fall in love with a person that we find attractive and appropriate for us, but
also someone who
demonstrates that they
are attracted to us..this
creates a situation
where a great opportunity is open to
us for self-expansion..the fact that they are attracted to us offers a
significant opportunity
— when we perceive
this, we feel a surge of
exhilaration!
Q: does it always work
this way?
A: no, if we feel badly about ourselves..the process gets thrown off if we cant believe that another persons finds us attractive..where we dont want to belong to a club that would have us for a
member..we tend to
miss out on opportunities for falling in love if we dont feel good about ourselves..
Q: what conditions are
best for meeting someone and falling in
love?
A: when you meet someone under conditions that are
highly arousing..a time
when the body is stirred up and excited, we tend to experience attraction at a heightened level..this
effect is well documented but the explanations for it are very controversial..i
tend to believe that we
come to associate the
arousal of the situation
with this person and
our own self - expansion..
Q: when do we fall in
love?
A: contrary to what most people think, the statistics show that most people fall in love with someone that they have known for a while..people only report falling in love
quickly about 1/3 to 40
percent of the time..of
course, this varies from
culture to culture..falling in love happens differently between
cultures but it does occur in most cultures..
Q: how does our
appearance factor into
the equation of falling
in love?
A: this is interesting
if you are very unattractive, it can hurt you a lot in forming romantic relationships..
however, being attractive doesn't help that much..
Q: how do you explain
that?
A: two important characteristics, kindness
and intelligence, are
extremely important in
the process of falling in
love..and attractiveness
is not connected to these things..these two attributes are things
that people learn about
someone from knowing them over time..intelligence is
important in all aspects
of life, especially in love..but kindness is
the strongest indicator for a successful long-term relationship.. `

2 Sep 2014 07:11

Yes habibi - fake like me -

2 Sep 2014 07:11

Its Bosinian languge.
Hu gaya gaya ....<3

2 Sep 2014 07:17

Yes NaeEm paji you`re absolutely right - it`s our naturality to fall inlove with an anonymous person & you have correctly said that we fall inlove with an attractive & appropriate person - I like your valuable comment - good explanation with examples

2 Sep 2014 07:19

Quote by Hakeem-bhai
Quote by Wafa-waseem
We`re here in this world to live an ordinary life & there is no interest in the loveaffairs but suddenly we fall inlove without knowing about it. Actually we cannot comprehend the situation in which someone makes to fall inlove with her or him!

Do you know about it? What happens whenever we fall inlove? Is there something attractive which makes us to fall inlove? :)

haha its nature

nature ????

2 Sep 2014 07:20
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2 Sep 2014 07:28

This is our human instinct.