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18 Aug 2014 21:59

think lies behind your urge to talk about your friends or share a piece of juicy gossip about a pal. Perhaps you think that it's harmless fun and perhaps you even feel a little proprietary over the information because it is about your friend after all. Or perhaps you think that dropping your friend's secrets or most embarrassing moments into the middle of a conversation will be funny and spares you having to say anything of the sort about yourself. Or are you currently unhappy with your life and talking about other friend’s misfortune or misery feeds your soul? Whatever the motivation behind your loose tongue, you need to get to the root of why you find it's okay to talk behind the back of your friends, in order to know how to stop.

Edited by christine123 / 18 Aug 2014 22:00
19 Aug 2014 11:08

(HOW TO STOP TALKING ABOUT FRIEND)


Can't stop it ...


If you talk about your pals behind their back, think about how it is likely to make them feel, before you pass along one more morsel of information, stop and think about what you're doing. Then make a pact with yourself to stop talking about friend behind their back for good.

Edited by areairacute / 19 Aug 2014 11:09
19 Aug 2014 11:21

talking about someone isnt bad
unless
1.youre talking about her/his secret which she/he didnt tell u To share

2. bad talking her/Him

this 2 are the bad principles of gossiping.....

Edited by ANTIDOTE1 / 19 Aug 2014 12:08
19 Aug 2014 11:26

I jst hate gossiping about friends cos we're all same and we all make mistakes so why gossiping about them.

19 Aug 2014 11:30

I agree ... Your right

19 Aug 2014 11:42
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19 Aug 2014 11:52

Quote by areairacute
(HOW TO STOP TALKING ABOUT FRIEND)


Can't stop it ...


If you talk about your pals behind their back, think about how it is likely to make them feel, before you pass along one more morsel of information, stop and think about what you're doing. Then make a pact with yourself to stop talking about friend behind their back for good.

Yes i agree wit u

19 Aug 2014 11:59

That's true fatimanoor

19 Aug 2014 12:01

Simple,
Stop talking about your friends.

19 Aug 2014 12:04

How cud I stop to tlkin wid my frnd? if its shes close to me,..sharin totz, secretz,jooking,..,nothin wrng wid dat, da wrng is if u gossiping or tlkin bd wid da other frnds.. Datz is really bad..

19 Aug 2014 12:07

Mmm many topics to talk tht is not disturbing on their own private life so better be just honest and frendly and no 1 will get hurt ...

Edited by china24 / 19 Aug 2014 12:07
19 Aug 2014 12:12

Best not to talk about people including friends and enemies, better talking about ideas that will benefit u than hurt you anyone

19 Aug 2014 12:17

if u hate sum1 make ur self al0ne to av0id talking bwt it to sum1..just let ur self relax

19 Aug 2014 12:19
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19 Aug 2014 12:20

Quote by quiete
if u hate sum1 make ur self al0ne to av0id talking bwt it to sum1..just let ur self relax

im agree with h0n just say him/her n0 `

19 Aug 2014 12:21

Quote by mitze
Oh good questions, I have learn about this, my friend hurts my feelings in other face of her, so I tell my other friends that she was she , ,  I assumed that since my friend seems to have a thick skin, that it's okay to talk about them without consideration for their feelings. Your friend does have feelings; they're just not flaunting them. At least you've got the gumption to admit you've been thoughtless. Now it's time to turn things around.,, I followed this, hmmmp whatever, ;D

19 Aug 2014 12:40

That is true, if you do gossip to other people then how would you feel if they do the same to you, mmm skelim na lookim.

19 Aug 2014 12:50

simply change the topic

19 Aug 2014 15:18

The best thing is to avoid having many friends and use your spare time in church or being with family that's the best thing u can do or else u can chat on mobofree or play games on the Ipad!

Edited by sarah-_-konnie / 19 Aug 2014 15:19
19 Aug 2014 16:25

I dont think you should go around talking trash about people because I think thats how you get your hat handed to you. I'm good at what I do, but I wouldnt be so bold and arrogant as to say something disrespectful about,