25 Jul 2014 08:11
No one is purely bad, and everyone carries their own pain which influences the decisions they make. This doesn’t condone their thoughtless, insensitive, or selfish decisions, but it makes them easier to understand.After all, we’ve all been thoughtless, insensitive, and selfish at times. Usually, we have good intentions.And for the most part, we all do the best we can from day to day—even when we hurt someone; even when we’re too stubborn, ashamed, or in denial to admit the hurt we’ve caused.So how do you forgive someone when every fiber of your being resists? How do you look at them lovingly when you still have the memory of their unloving action? How do let go of the way you wish things had worked out if only they made a different choice? Friends please share your opinion.
25 Jul 2014 08:11
Do not keep thinking of the past or the bad thing that happened; when you let go of it, you get over the anger/bitterness that you felt and it clears the path of forgiveness! The best thing is time!
Remind yourself of how much forgiveness would mean to youif it was your turn for a mistake!
How to forgive someone when it`s hard?
Simply don`t forgive her / him!
#1 Because we are sinners we should forgive othersMatthew 6:14-15 NIVFor if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.Colossians 3:13 NIVBear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.Ephesians 4:31-32 NIVGet rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.Edited by Amit786 / 25 Jul 2014 08:22
its bettr didn't a mistake....
Verry good .
He doesn't know how to say SORRY!
No mater how much he hurt you he will never apologise.
just because of the forgiving heart that I have and I believe in forgiveness I swallow my pain and forgive him and carey on with life bevause life goes on no mater u forgive or u don't.
For me to forgive some1 is easy but not for a person who hurt me for more than once and come to ask for forginess,I don't think I cn forgive him or her because she'll hurt me in order to come back for apology,but a person whom I can see that she's saying sorry from the bottom of her heart and she's regreting for what she has done to me then I can forgive and forget except the 1 who hurt me by careless mistakes that 1 I Can't forgive her as I did in the past I'm sorry!Edited by sarah-_-konnie / 25 Jul 2014 12:48
Its not easy guys to forgive some1 but u have to try