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4 Jun 2014 04:33

Dear friends I want to know your honest opinion on what to do when your partener avoiding to chat you at all. Please feel free to share your honest ideas here.

4 Jun 2014 04:36

Is your boyfriend or girlfriend avoiding you? Is your partner ignoring your calls?
* .Your partner does not answer your calls and avoid calling you back
* .Your partner spends more time with friends
* .Your partner avoids giving you missed calls or sending you text message
* .You partner does not look forward to chatting you and gives reasons
*.Your partner says that he or she needs some space.
What to do if your partner is avoiding you?

4 Jun 2014 09:53

I will let go.. .
No time for pampering her. ..

4 Jun 2014 10:16
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4 Jun 2014 10:38

No idea. . .

4 Jun 2014 10:42

Quote by mitze
Quote by Amit786
Dear friends I want to know your honest opinion on what to do when your partener avoiding to chat you at all. Please feel free to share your honest ideas here.
I will asked him why you avoid to chat with me dear ? If he answer im busy so, , :crossSometimes our partners is busy their life so no need to worry k , just relaxed and wait when they got time to chat with you, :pcbut if you're partner no time to chat with you or really avoiding you all the time , you need to thinking deep na maybe something wrong with you or maybe you need to add some sweet just like , make a video for her or edit photos with nice song sometime the girls feel boring if you only do chatting :ff

thanks for sharing your nice and honest opinion friend.

4 Jun 2014 10:47

I will hit for other one ,AMIT bhai kuch dimag se bhi kaam lo .hmesha dil pr hi mat atke raho. Try other one.

4 Jun 2014 10:48

If he or she is doing that to u just remember there is sameone else in ur place its why .

4 Jun 2014 10:50

Quote by Crookxmr
I will hit for other one ,AMIT bhai kuch dimag se bhi kaam lo .hmesha dil pr hi mat atke raho. Try other one.

lol true love is the matter of hear friend not of mind.

4 Jun 2014 10:52

hhhmn if ur partner is avoiding u, give him/her space maybe he/she is getting bored with ur chatting, think of better things to talk about, maybe u need more effort to make her/him enjoy ur chatting.

4 Jun 2014 10:54

Quote by celina9397
hhhmn if ur partner is avoiding u, give him/her space maybe he/she is getting bored with ur chatting, think of better things to talk about, maybe u need more effort to make her/him enjoy ur chatting.

thanks for sharing your honest opinion here friend.

4 Jun 2014 11:07
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4 Jun 2014 11:14

Quote by Lost in love
Aha! It means sumthing sumthing n yan mister amit,

Something Something!
Probably you don`t know about. .

4 Jun 2014 11:17

ask why and what ever the answer, you will not die

4 Jun 2014 11:44

Pooja and Manish met
online through a dating
website. They confessed
their love for each
other. For first few
months everything was
going good. Late night
phone conversations,
kisses and hugs, lying at
home about a
relationship and
watching the sunset
together, all felt so nice.
Few days later Manish
felt that Pooja is
ignoring him. He
confronted her about
her behavior. She said
she wanted to end the
relationship. Manish did
not probe too much
and moved on.
Do you think Manish did
the right thing? Moving
on without knowing
the reason of ignorance
is not always possible. If
relationship is
stumbling, it is better to
end it on a good note
instead of making
things worse. If your
partner is avoiding you,
having a word with him
or her can improve the
situation. There can be
some
misunderstanding.
However, being pushy
does not help.
Is he or she ignoring
me?
When suddenly there is
something wrong with
your partner, when you
feel everything is not
okay, when you start
finding loop holes in a
relationship and when
your partner ignores
you, you know it is time
to do something to
save your relationship.
Following are signs that
show your partner is
trying to ignore you.
Your partner does
not answer your calls
and avoid calling you
back
Your partner spends
more time with
friends
Your partner avoids
giving you missed
calls or sending you
text message
You partner does not
look forward to
meeting you and
gives reasons
Your partner says
that he or she needs
some space
Your partner does
not include you in his
or her plans anymore
What to do if your
partner is avoiding you
If you are sure that your
partner is avoiding and
ignoring you, you need
to make a move. Do not
overreact, do not be
overanxious, the
problem with your
relationship might be
trivial. Once you have
identified the problem,
it is time to bring it to
the notice of your
partner. Hard as it may
seem and be difficult to
do but it can save you
many ugly moments.
Communicate
Communication,
commitment, trust and
love are the
characteristics of a
successful relationship.
If your relationship is
missing even one of
these qualities, it may
tumble. Love is like a
delicate thread and
open communication is
the best way to keep
the bond strong. If you
are feeing that your
partner is falling out of
love, go and talk to him.
Ask him why he is
ignoring you. He may
keep his cell phone
switched off just to
avoid you. Meet him in
person. Avoid discussing
things over the phone,
through text messages,
via e-mails or through
chats. Do it face to face.
Seek explanation
Tell him that you have
noticed that he is
avoiding you and you
need an explanation.
Tell him that you would
not go without getting
proper answers to your
doubts. Do not say
something that will
hurt your partner's
feelings. You are still
together. Your partner
may be going through a
bad phase. He may be
depressed as he got
rejected in the job
interview or he is
hesitating to tell you
something. Find out the
root cause of his
behavior. Life will surely
get on track once again.
However remember
you do not have to be
forceful and keep
calling every minute,
demanding an
explanation.
Give some space
Sometimes emotions
are hard to understand.
Give your partner some
space. Leave him alone
for a few days. When he
will be okay, he will get
back to you. Meanwhile
spend time alone. Let
your partner spend
time alone so he will
get time to know the
situation in better ways.
Do not argue or blame
your partner. Do not say
things like, ‘you have
changed' or ‘you are not
the one with whom I
fell in love at first
sight.'It is said, that
time heals. Be patient
and see whether things
improve.
Think again
If you have discussed
the reason for his
disinterest in you, if you
have given him enough
time, if you have waited
enough to improve the
situation and nothing is
coming out of it, then it
is better you move on.
Let go. If the person is
the one for you, he will
come back. Otherwise
that person is just not
meant for you. If it is
clear that your
relationship is going
nowhere and is on
verge of break-up, do
not cling to it.
Believe in yourself and
have patience. Avoid
explaining to your
partner how nice it
would be to be
together. Stay calm
come what may, you
will be glad you did.
Trust yourself and go
on with life. It is not
worth a person who
does not need or
deserve you.

4 Jun 2014 11:54

I will go to home

4 Jun 2014 15:35

Hey,dearest,the action to be taken depemds on the rational behind the avoidans.we can not reply as long as u do not tell us the reason why.

4 Jun 2014 16:12
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5 Jun 2014 03:17

Eish its painful when ur partner is avoiding u,I would say communication is the key 2everything.

5 Jun 2014 03:21

Talk 2her or him 2find out the reason and other ppl when they r angry they avoid the person 2cool up 2 avoid 2make things worse.