Nigerian forum: Literature - How to stop lieng in on time.
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3 Dec 2015 22:49

Do you know 99% of our lies are cost by low prestige and low self esteem? Yes! you might be the c.e.o of checkwap int'l, managing director of the world bank with that bold look on your personality and achievements but when it comes to telling the truth even individuals who are as bold as a lion ends up cracking a lie. The question is why?

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Now! questions that requires either a truth or lie are not obviously ask but with an expectation of an answer. The question just hit you "john who took that money?" its mary(john lies) without giving it a second thought, you were probably scared , you never really wanted to acuse mary but it just pob out of your lips. Then you get even more confuse you start to look for lies to cover up other lies "with one lie comes a thousand - quote by freaki kuzco" how do you stop this.

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STOP THE MIND SET "WHAT WOULD HAPPEN IF I TELL THE TRUTH".

Thats what really make you lie, you are just always afraid of the unknow - stop been afraid of what mom would do, what dad would say, how my friends would see me, for God sake you accompanied no body to earth when you die you do not go with an escort. Solution: say the truth and give reasons for your action.

Example:

ELDER BROTHER: Who used up my credit card?

YOU: I bro! I used it to call my girlfriend she just lost her grandmum.

Your elder brother would probably be like, oh send her my greatings. Rather than you banging a big lie.

SECONDLY; SEE YOURSELF AS EQUAL TO OR BETTER THAN THE PERSON THROWING THE QUESTION.

When you know he or she can't do anything other than shout tell them the truth and let them be at the end not you just cool of.

THIRDLY; JUST KNOW YOU CANT HIDE THE TOXIC TRUTH FOR LONG AND KNOW WHEN THEY FIND OUT THEY BE MORE DISAPPIONTED

Lies make people tend to hate you more when the truth is out, tell it now trust me , they might be angry but deep down they seriously respects you for the truth.

DON'T TRY TO BE WHAT YOU ARE'NT WHEN AROUND FRIENDS.

Pride under noting tends to make you lie, and when it comes to friends they don't just let you lie they also seek the truth either at your behind or where ever.

LASTLY: Live your lifes on principles, let your yes be yes and let your no be no.

Edited by Bananaprince / 3 Dec 2015 22:51