Nigerian forum: Romance & Friendship - WHAT IS TRUE LOVE?
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7 Mar 2014 16:19

kindly give the definition of LOVE ND TRUE LOVE in d WORLD 2day... And Guide 4 a Together 4 EVER.. What Marriage needs... What Must be Done 4 Ur Marriage to Last 4 EVER....

Edited by Mic0019 / 7 May 2015 23:08
13 Mar 2014 12:23

To and trust is difficult,but when you do,joy comes on d inside of you

7 May 2015 22:56

A successful marriage is the union of two unconditional
lovers who are committed to outdo each other in acts of
sacrificial giving, selfless serving, undeserved forgiveness,
unreserved admiration, heartfelt compassion & willful
submission. - Isaac Kubvoruno

7 May 2015 22:57

Don’t Preach to Your Spouse. Don’t demand love,
attention, respect and affection. Rather show your
spouse how it’s supposed to be done. Be the change you
want to see in your spouse. Live your sermon; don’t
preach it. Demonstrate your love; don’t demand it. - Isaac

7 May 2015 23:02

No trumpets sound when the important decisions of our
life are made. Destiny is made known silently.

7 May 2015 23:04

One spouse cannot build a marriage alone when the other
spouse is committed to destroying it. Marriage works when
both husband & wife work together as a team to build their
marriage. Teammates do not compete against each other;
they complement each other. Teammates do not pull each
other down; they encourage & support each other.
Teammates do not fight in the opposites direction; they
face the same direction & fight the same opponent
together. Marriage teamwork is not about me; it's about us,
we & ours. There is no greater example of teamwork than
husband & wife. Hand in hand together, let every couple
work together for the success of their marriage. Marriage is
not a solo performance. - Isaac Kubvoruno

7 May 2015 23:04

Marriage flourishes when the couple works together as a
team; when both husband & wife decide that winning
together is more important than keeping score. - Isaac

7 May 2015 23:05

Husbands: There is nothing that threatens the security of a
wife than the thought of another woman competing for the
attention & affection of her husband. Nothing is more
painful. Nothing is more disrespecting. Nothing is more
insulting. Nothing is more belittling & degrading. Every wife
needs to know that she is still number one in your life. She
needs to know that there is no competitor or contender for
her privileged position in your heart. She needs to know
that you will continue to choose her above all others daily.
You may have told her a million times that you love her. You
may have told her ten times yesterday that “I love you.” But
she needs to be reminded today & every day that you love
her even if you think that she already knows that you do.
Cherish her daily above all others.

7 May 2015 23:10

Nothing Worthwhile Ever Comes Easy: There are no
shortcuts, highways nor elevators that lead to the Promised
Land. The path that leads to the Promised Land is narrow
and winding and it takes us through the red seas, dry
places, high mountains, deep valleys and long detours. This
journey is slow, you can’t fast forward it. Step-by-step and
one day at a time is how this journey is taken. Life is not a
journey for the swift. It is for those who persevere, endure
and keep getting up every time they stumble and fall.
Nobody said it would be easy. Keep pressing forward. Each
step is taking you closer to the finish line. Yes “It's not an
easy road.., for many are the thorns on the way.” But “His
presence gives us joy every day.” You might be going
“through the valley of the shadow of death.” You might be
facing hard times. But fear no evil. The Lord is your
Shepherd. He is with you every step of the way. Keep
pressing “toward the mark for the prize of the high calling
of God in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 3:14) – Isaac Kubvoruno

7 May 2015 23:11

There is no room for secrets in marriage. Secrets corrode
trust. Secrets destroy marriages. Every secret that you keep
from your spouse, regardless of how small it is, is taking
away from your marriage. Remember nothing stays secret.
The same Devil who assures you that you’ll never be caught
is the same Devil who will blow the whistle on you. Your
spouse shouldn't have to become a detective, investigator
or secret service agent. Give your spouse open access to
your entire personal life. Don’t take your spouse’s trust for
granted. Successful marriages are built on trust. It takes
years to build trust; it takes a single secret to destroy it; & it
takes sincere apologies & a whole lifetime of proven honest
living to restore & repair it. Respect your spouse & honor
your commitment. Live an honorable, open & honest life.

7 May 2015 23:12

Husbands: The reason why other women look attractive is
because someone is taking good care of them. Grass is
always green where it is watered. Instead of drooling over
the green grass on the other side of the fence, work on
yours and water it regularly. Any man can admire a
beautiful woman, but it takes a true gentleman to make a
woman admirable and beautiful

7 May 2015 23:17

In marriage it is easy to drift into pettiness. It is surprising
how sometimes adults can behave like children and fight
over very insignificant things. It's not the big problems that
destroy marriages; it's the small ones that are natured over
time. Many marriages end over ridiculously childish habits
and mere childish behaviors. Marriage is for adults. Many
marriages would improve and many divorces would be
avoided if couple would simply behave like adults and treat
each other with respect. Do yourself and your marriage a
big favor and be the mature one in your marriage. Stop the
yelling. Stop the tantrums. Stop the cat fights. Stop the
name calling. Stop the calling of parents for every little
arguments. Stop the stubbornness. Stop the fake cries for
attention. Stop the silent treatment. Stop the cursing. Stop
the emotional manipulation. "When I was a child, I talked
like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child.
When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind
me." 1 Corinthians 13:11.

7 May 2015 23:18

Sexual expression within a marriage is not an option or an
extra. It is certainly not, as it has sometimes been
considered, a necessary evil in which spiritual Christians
engage only to procreate children. It is far more than a
physical act. God created it to be the expression an
experience of love on the deepest human level and to be a
beautiful and powerful bond between husband and wife." ~
John MacArthur