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12 Oct 2014 19:30

pls i need an urgent advice on dis matter. i'm a 23 years old virgin gurl.nd
i've been dating my boyfriend now since 2years ago,wit a promise of no sex relationship.he's so fond of me dat i knw dat he luvs me more dan i love him.unfortunately,last week wit d help of my frnd i caught him sleeping wit anoda gurl.nd,he's now telling me dat he's doing it for my sake.

Edited by SHEKBB / 13 Oct 2014 09:45
13 Oct 2014 09:30
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13 Oct 2014 09:54

Not true at all... Why is he doing it 4 u, is dat gal a toy?. Men self. JST ASK HIM TO EXPLAIN.

13 Oct 2014 10:20

Well in ds chase its a difficult one.if u go to him and tel hm to explain he miet say u dnt gv hm what he wnts.d guy is cheatn on u

13 Oct 2014 10:27

Hmmmm,, no him fult ooo, 2yrs no sex, d guy reelly try, i cnt du dt such nonsnce ooo, m nt impotent nw.

13 Oct 2014 10:56

he might sleep with the girl but do not form any relationship with her,he just went to get the [SEX].understand him cos it is not easy for him,pls just try all your best even if you are not giving him sex to make and keep him happy.and my urgent advice to is that if you know that he really loves you as you said pls dont chase him away cos you might find it difficult to get someone like him again.may god leads you

13 Oct 2014 10:56

A guy can not be dating u wit out lovemaking especially wen he is not a virgin like u are. Sex is not love,he might sex another girl buh still love u. Since u ar not ready for it he can't hold himself. So don't just conclude dat he don't love u. He doesnt just want to border u wit sex buh if I may advise u keep stay away from relationship if u ar not ready for sex

13 Oct 2014 11:39

Just Pray So Dat God Will Lead U

13 Oct 2014 11:51

In dat case I cannt blame him much , wen he told u dat his nt goin to has sex wit u until u get married to him,his a man nw

13 Oct 2014 12:12


13 Oct 2014 12:23

let him explain hw

Edited by Gaemezu6 / 13 Oct 2014 12:32
13 Oct 2014 12:28

This guy truly love u pls dont let him go, staying without sex when u are not a virgin is not easy. How many guys can stay even a month, forgive him

13 Oct 2014 12:33

he might be telling d truth,but did he promise you that he won't be doing it with another lady?

13 Oct 2014 12:58


13 Oct 2014 15:00

He try is not easy but what I understand is that he agree with u bcos he loves u, 4 not having sex with u not 4 not having sex with other girl but some times una condition de too much

13 Oct 2014 16:13

My dear, if is ture as u said, an he was sorry 4 what he did 4give him

13 Oct 2014 16:15

dat cant be true

13 Oct 2014 16:33
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13 Oct 2014 16:45

dnt mind d guy he wil rude ur life 4 u, move away from him is only lukin 4 sex lf u gve him after avin sex he wil live u.

13 Oct 2014 17:37

d trueth of d matter is dat he doesnt want 2 border u but if u re not ready 4 sex now u should keep off 4rm anytin dating may God help us