Ghana forum: Romance & Friendship - Should I tell him the truth?
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18 Aug 2015 15:21

I am 20yrs of age and I've slept with 22guyz.....I am in a fully committed relationship now and my boyfriend has found out about my past and he is asking me.. please what should I do? should I tell him the truth or not...am afraid I might loose him if I tell him the truth.hmnmnn

Edited by Mobofree / 18 Aug 2015 15:25
18 Aug 2015 17:28

Tell him n der u will see if he truely loves u

18 Aug 2015 18:20

if he really loves u then he dont need ur past. but will u also say NO to other guys if he commits himself to u?

18 Aug 2015 20:34

eeiii!!22 paaa?? anyway,telin ur partner abt ur past is a serious n de most important thing 2 do.if u don tel him de truth it may jeopadise ur future wit him.so jus tel him de truth if he loves u he wil stay n if nt den jus move on n change 4 de beta

19 Aug 2015 01:31

hmmmm I am confused...

19 Aug 2015 02:50

come on release urself 4rm liers nd say d truth,may be u might be d luky 1.

19 Aug 2015 09:24

the truth is the best way for u

19 Aug 2015 12:54

U have to tell him

19 Aug 2015 16:29

Jux go on n tell him n he will 4give u

19 Aug 2015 18:54

dear pals things re complicated now av told him de truth but he wants to know de details if I dated all of dem or it was for moni or for plessure wat shud I do now ?

19 Aug 2015 21:02

The Bible say,:only truth will set man free ,but is difficult, plez tell the truth.

20 Aug 2015 09:34

av alrdy told him dat, wat he hrd is true buh I love him nd so av chngd. he shudnt wori cuz am nt gonna cht on him...wat if I tell him hw I ended up slpn wid all those guyz nd he use it agnst me if we gt a prblm?

20 Aug 2015 09:56

don't tell him he number of guyz u have slept with

20 Aug 2015 10:56

eeeeei 22 guys? Hmmm nawa ooo buh jux hv d courage nd tell him d truth,let him knw u r changed person nw nd dat d past is gone,it wont repeat itself again.

20 Aug 2015 10:58

Yes u hv to tell him all ok dnt b afraid

20 Aug 2015 11:53

We ladies In this life meet guys who wil break our vaginity, guys who wil promise us with sweet words, guys who wil disappoint us with broken heart before our right man comes to wipe all our tears away with the exception of very few who get their husbands easily without passing through such problems. So I hope your guy wasnt expecting you to be a virgin before proposing to you but for you telling him the number of guys wil be a very bad thing to do since there wil be no trust in your relationship cos he might see you as a prostitute and never trust you again so my dear be careful how you talk with him and if you should break up never go in for an area guy again. Just pray to God to give you the man of whom you are carrying his ribs to avoid more shameful acts by dating friends. Hmmmm, you are very young person to have dated that plenty guys so be very careful with your life. Control your sexual feelings and your desire for money. Thnx

20 Aug 2015 13:52

but tell us lady, how did u end up sleeping with dese 22 guys??

20 Aug 2015 16:45

Quote by prettyshadow
but tell us lady, how did u end up sleeping with dese 22 guys??

eeeeeiiiiiii @pretty u r being too curious remember curiousity kills the cat oooo.

20 Aug 2015 16:58

Quote by shamat
av alrdy told him dat, wat he hrd is true buh I love him nd so av chngd. he shudnt wori cuz am nt gonna cht on him...wat if I tell him hw I ended up slpn wid all those guyz nd he use it agnst me if we gt a prblm?

tell him ur past is gone but if he still insists to know tell him if he really loves u he will smile at it as if he is reading a funny story book and will love u more but if leaves upon hearing ur past then he dont love u.

20 Aug 2015 18:39

thnx luvly people. . I didn't tell him de num myself he found out in my diary....people told him dat am a flirt nd staffs nd he askd me buh I denied so everything was going on well nd I dnt know how he find de diary....most of de things dat has hapnd in ma lyf, is in de diary. am very stupid to hv gvn myself to soo many guyz at dis age nd very very stupid to write things dat hapn in my lyf in a diary. hmmm I love him soo much.